The stigma associated with sex toys is gradually reducing as more people are opening up to the endless possibility of spicing up their sex lives. There is no competition: sex toys are, of course, great for masturbation, but they’re also excellent to use when you want to mix things up with your partner.

Adult toys commonly known as sex toys are objects people use to have more pleasure during sex or masturbation. As weirdly as this may seem sex toys can be used for medical purposes for people who have sexual dysfunction. When people hear of sex toys mostly vibrators and dildos come to mind but sex toys are not restricted to only women. Women are more likely to make use of this product because the majority cannot orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone and can reach "satiety" way more reliably with the use of a sex toy.

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“Life is what it is, we are equal humans with unequal opportunities, some of us must do what we must to survive” said a confidential source interviewed by FabAfriq. Our source is self-made 25 year old girl, who has mastered the art of survival by meeting the needs of people’s sexual desires for a living. She currently recites in Douala, and the only family member her siblings look up to. Her business is simple, she sells a wide range of products such as; penis enlargement creams, sex toys, naughty dice, hand/feet cuffs, feathers, butt/breast enlargements and services such as blind dates, hook ups and sex counselling. She is one of the leading suppliers of sexual products in Cameroon and is responsible for a multitude of relationships.

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Business hasn’t also been great. In the earlier years of her carrier she had to go through several transitions. She dealt with the passing of both parents within a short period, social stigma associated with her new branding and rejection. She was born to a family 5, after the parents passing, she was tasked with the responsibility of taking care of her siblings at the same time meandering through life for survival. “My business is built on the secrecy of my clients, we live in a society where sex is not freely spoken of, talk less of sexual aids. I make genuine money from what I do, at least enough to sponsor my siblings through school” said our source. Internet trawling is one of the most significant challenge she added. Sometimes the people who make hateful comments are the same people to buy the products. Others are fixated with the idea of her siblings not succeeding in life because it is money from a business that promotes sin. Her social media platform is evident with the success of her siblings. The end always justifies the means.

“I can afford a decent life style, my siblings are well catered for and educated, I’m happy that’s all that matters to me.” Some people might despise her for what she does but she is as the reason so many relationships have survived through the products she sells, and the services she offers. Life isn’t back and white, it simply making sure the end justifies the means; and for our source it does.

Spicing up ones sexual life can be tricky, sex position dice game referred to as naughty dice can be an easy start. They have been serving people's needs as the most fantastic adult romantic game. Love dices are treasures for no couple wanting to lose themselves sexually. You can find a wide range of Naughty Dice Online that will stimulate your senses at very first sight. You can learn about erotic drawings of various Kamasutra sex positions to try with your partner. Learn different areas of your house never thought before where you can perform sexual acts.

These dices glow in the dark and come with action words, including kiss, lick, suck and bite. Aside from having these words, these dices also have erogenous zones where you can perform the desired activity on your partner. Sex Dice can be helpful stimulant to get your mind ready for a mind blowing experience.

One of the reasons why adult toys have been in such high demand is because of addiction, pleasure, hormones and the size of a man’s penis.

Sex addiction

Sex addiction is a compulsive need to perform sexual acts to achieve the kind of “fix” that a person with substance abuse gets from consuming the drug they are addicted to. As a cigarette is to smoker so is sex to sex addicts. The compulsive sexual behaviour described here should not be confused with disorders such as paedophilia or bestiality. Sex addiction can be highly dangerous and result in considerable difficulties with relationships. Like drug or alcohol dependence, it has the potential to negatively impact a person’s physical and mental health, personal relationships, quality of life, and safety.


Paul R. Abramson is one of the world’s most eminent scientists in the field of human sexuality and a former editor of the Journal of Sex Research. According to him, Sexual pleasure consists of those positively valued feelings induced by sexual stimuli. From the soothing sensations of sensual massage, to the explosion of feeling that accompanies orgasm. It is this yearning urge that drives people to lean on sex toys for gratification. Whether we are attracted to the opposite gender, the same gender or both, the truth is: We learn how to experience sexual pleasure for pleasure’s sake by understanding our own sexual desires and responses.


According to Medical news today, Oestrogen, progesterone, and testosterone all affect sexual desire and arousal. Having higher levels of oestrogen in the body promotes vaginal lubrication and increases sexual desire. Increases in progesterone can reduce sexual desire. There is some debate around how testosterone levels affect female sex drive. During menstruation the body produces high level of testosterone. According to other researchers, some women experience high sexual drive during menstruation and sex during menstruation can help a great deal by improving menstrual cramps. Some men never have sex with a woman during menstruation as a result, the toy do the work for the ladies.

Penis size

While others have often asked, does penis size matter in pleasing a woman? Research has proven it does not. Penis size doesn’t matter; at least not in terms of desirability or function. Its size has zero bearing on its ability to give and receive pleasure or do any of what it’s supposed to do. Penis size is not the final determining factor in a man’s ability to satisfy a woman or enjoy sex. The two of the most sexually sensitive areas for a woman is the clitoris and the G-spot, and are both easily reached and aroused. Sex toys have been created to target this particular areas there are more than 20 different adult toys and all are for the same reasons; pleasure.

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